Simple ramblings

Today someone said this one phrase to me. When people tell you you cannot do it, just prove them wrong.
Such a simple line, yet full of meanings. Especially for me. Connects so well.
Had a terrific time out with a friend on Sunday. Don't know if i mentioned it yet. But i guess a friends posting spoke true to heart. Sometimes, there is that one person that you know will hurt you. And yet, you allow that person that opportunity coz you value that person's happiness above your own. For a long time, i have not felt that way. Especially after Guardian a long time ago. Last week, maybe at this exact same time, i came to realize that i value his happiness a lot more then mine. This one friend, so special, who might not view me as someone as special, but somewhere along the way, i've given up control of my own heart. Scary as it may seem, i see it as a beginning. A beginning of letting go of total control and living as a person again.
I have no idea how this friendship will turn out. Or even if we will ever have a future admist all the mist and haze. But i know that somehow, i have grown. And he has helped me grow in that way. For that, i whisper a silent thank you. If you give me a chance to touch your life like you have touched mine, i would truly be the happiest person alive. Today, life seems more reasonable. That i'm happy to be alive. Cheers